When Mom and Dad Share It All

Gender should not determine the division of labor at home. It’s a message consistent with nearly every major social trend of the past three decades: women entering the work force, equality between the sexes, the need for two incomes to pay the bills, even courts that favor shared custody after divorce. And it is what many would agree is fair, even ideal. Yet it is anything but the norm.

https://www.nytimes.com/2008/06/15/magazine/15parenting-t.html